It's been a just about a week since I've been in Walindi and I feel more settled in. It is a very pleasant, small resort, with a friendly (and hard working) staff and divers from around the world. British, Australian, Irish, American, and Japanese right now.
Life is easy at Walindi

The creek
As with all international travels I find I adopt well to new cultures, people, and situations. Indeed, it is a necessary and quite a considerate thing to do in order to be more immersed than simply a tourist. I find I adjust my ethics to each culture, place, and situation. A good example of this is that I have eaten meat quite a few times these past months. It has been hard to be a pure vegetarian on the road and I would rather eat any food than no food at all but I also do not like to be rude outside of my own country. I will not ask to be a special exception to the kitchen nor on the dive boat. I am happy to taste the local cuisine including cattle from the next door ranch. I would much rather support the local farmers here than agro-industrial complex we have created in the States. I still don't quite care for the meat I am eating but at least I do not go hungry.
I also do not like to impose my own views, culture, or opinions. Discussions and healthy (sometimes heated) debates naturally occur but I never make assumptions based on cultures. Walindi sees visitors come and go every week. This means you never quite know who is going to be on the dive boat or at dinner that night. This also means that as a single person staying for a bit longer than usual, the friends who I meet tend to move on before I do, leaving me to meet new people. I am quite used to this. While there are lonely times during my year I do find I am able to meet friendly people and share a bit of lives even just for a short time and traveling alone internationally has given me a lot of perspective. I find other Americans are the hardest to talk to - mostly because they tend to be self-involved, loud, and rude - and I do not talk just of tee. It's really one of the hardest things I've learned this year - that the American stereotype is quite true. I have had much better conversations and have made more friends with the English and Australians here. Americans just aren't open to involving themselves in the culture around them. When I first got to Walindi, I quickly made friends with four British divers. Perhaps to have some entertainment or perhaps they actually liked me - they didn't seem to mind me hanging around, diving, and eating with them. Despite their constant sarcasm and making fun of my Americanism, we got along quite well. They left today leaving me to go out on the boat with the three other Americans here. I had a headache before we even got wet for the first dive due to the amazingly loud 30-something male American whose goal in life, it seems, is to talk about himself. I'm not sure if I would prefer him or the late-20s, asian-american woman, who barely looks at me unless it's to make some strange face or tell me that my mask should not be soaking in the fresh water reserved for cameras. You'd think we'd all share in our Americanism but I find this is rarely the case. The "nice" Americans I meet on the road (and yes, there are such things) tend to resemble expats and have had significant international traveling experience especially alone.
I do realize, of course, that I am creating my own stereotype of Americans but I cannot ignore my first hand observations. I prefer to share my lives with others on the road even though I know I will most likely never see them again. What is the point in not being friendly? You never know who you will meet.
I did have a lovely day today in the water - three wonderful dives in which we saw sharks, moray eels, and beautiful fish. Yesterday was quite nice as well - it was the last day for the British group who decided to spend their off-gassing day (you need to spend at least 12-24 hours out of the water before flying) visiting a hot springs. Rather than being stuck with the American divers, I decided to check out a part of the Island I had not seen.
After a long drive through oil palm plantations and making so many right and left turns I lost track, we drove straight into the forest to come to a beautiful, secluded river. Papua New Guinea is a volcanic island with many active volcanoes near by. This river is about 35C and has wonderful, healing red mud that you smother on your skin to soak. We only spent about an hour there as it was almost too hot with very little relief from the sun.
On the way to the springs
Me and my adopted, not quite as modest, British family
Mary, me, Nigel, Nigel, and Chris
Getting beautified